“People always talk about sex as either being terrible or amazing but what I’ve found in my own experience is that a lot of is unremarkable. I’ve dated people for long stretches of time and when it ends, I can’t remember what the sex was like for the life of me. The go-to descriptive word is always “nice.” The sex is nice. Um, you know what’s nice? Puppies, Ellen Degeneres, Unitarians, your friend’s mom, 75 degree weather, a hug from an orphan. Sex shouldn’t be just nice, right?”
If you know me, you would have realised by now that I don’t remember many things especially after they are over unless otherwise stated. I’ve been together with three people and when the first two ended, everything else ended including memories. It’s like I went through some sort of memory loss or something. It’s not something to be happy about. In fact if you think about it, it’s kinda sad. But it is the way it is for me. Just saying. The sex is nice. Yeah that’s right, nice. Alot of other things in life are nice as well. Ryan O’Connell, thank you for helping me pen down my thoughts.
